Showing posts with label stigma. Show all posts
Showing posts with label stigma. Show all posts

Sunday, November 15, 2009

The Homeless, The Mentally Ill, and The Ignorant

Meds Can Reduce Homelessness, but The Homeless (and Advocates) Don't Get It
Huffington Post, October 20, 2009
Some advocates for the homeless believe that housing is a ‘right’ and are devoid of any responsibilities, like taking medicines. Other advocates for the homeless want to present the homeless as being high-functioning well-educated, previously employed individuals who are temporarily down on their luck. I don’t deny this may be true for the majority of homeless, but these advocates shouldn’t deny there is a giant percentage who don’t fit this mold.
I should have known from the title that reading this article was a very bad idea. What this writer doesn't get is that it isn't as easy as saying "you need medication." We're all in situations where we know what is "good for us" but make choices to do different things instead.

I have severe hearing loss in my right ear, it started when I was in the second grade. My left ear was pretty close to normal so I tried a hearing aid in the right ear in elementary school but it didn't help much so I stopped using it. I had to say "what?" a lot and people sometimes thought I was ignoring them but I found ways to get by, usually undetected.

In middle school I nearly failed a class one quarter because it was lecture based and I needed to have a notetaker for one of my college classes but I just blamed it on the teachers voices.

I worked in residential care with adolescents for a few years. I couldn't hear when kids were talking to me if they were on the "bad" side and I couldn't hear the gossiping or the plotting. At that time I briefly considered getting a hearing aid but I was off to grad school in a few months so I decided to let it slide.

I went to grad school, did fine, got out, and got a job.

More recently my work began to suffer. I do a lot of training and I couldn't hear the questions that were asked. When it got to the point where I couldn't hear conversation at the quiet dinner table I knew I needed to seek out some help.

As soon as I got a hearing aid I began to realize that what was "normal" for me for so long was no where near "normal" for other people. During all of that time up to now I thought I was functioning just fine, that I had a grip on things. Now I'm starting to realize how much more successful I would have been if I just stuck with that hearing aid that I had in the third grade rather than going it on my own.

How am I any different from the person who decides that they feel better without their meds? The person who says "I don't need meds, I can make it on my own"? Or the person who says "I can't afford my meds so I'll have to give it a shot without them"? I am no different, and neither are you.

These are people who are experiencing homelessness and mental illness, NOT "the homeless mentally ill." This writer never once referred to them as "people," he just called them by their illness and their housing situation. That is not what makes a person a person. I am not a "hearing impaired." I am a colleague, a friend, a blogger, a daughter, and maybe someday a mother. Or maybe someday homeless. But none of these things alone will ever define who I am.

Please think before labeling people. It just makes you sound ignorant, especially when you label yourself as an advocate for "the ___". How about "homelessness," "treatment for mental illness," or "people experiencing homelessness/mental illness" instead?

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Us and Them

Maybe you've seen it already. Maybe you still don't believe that it's happening. Or maybe it's you. Around the country people who never dreamed of becoming homeless, people who have well paying jobs, people who own BMW's, and people who thought they had a safety net are finding themselves joining the ranks that they once thought only consisted of addicts, the weak, and the mentally ill.

Identity Crisis Accompanies VA Family's Financial Slide
Washington Post, October 6, 2009

Ron Vazquez was not a drunk. Not a drug addict. Not mentally ill.

For weeks, he repeated those phrases to himself and to anyone else who would listen. He and his wife used to fight over walk-in closet space and which BMW to buy. Yolanda Vazquez is the quintessential PTA mom -- organized and energetic. Ron's the classic Little League coach -- involved and enthusiastic. They were not drunks. Not drug addicts. Not mentally ill.

They were not homeless. Except that now, they are.

The Vazquezs are not alone. Around the country families that never dreamed that they would find themselves in a shelter are there. But they still see themselves as different from the "real" homeless people. As the oldest daughter says "This is where I live. It's not who I am." While I don't think the family should view themselves as derelicts and the scum of society, it saddens me that families that find themselves in this situation don't see the humanity in the "real" homeless people. There are plenty of people who struggle with alcoholism and mental illness but do have stable jobs and high salaries. Some of them have their illness under control while others are just successful at hiding their illness. Either way "those people" pass as one of "us" every day.

We are no different from "them." All that makes us different is that in this crazy world some of us have it easy and some of us didn't. The next time you see someone panhandling, or sleeping on a park bench, or slipping into a shelter remember that they shouldn't be pitied and you can't "save" them. Remember that if things were different you could be them and think about how you would want them to treat you if the tables were turned. Because, no matter what you feel, "they" are one of "us" too.

Sunday, April 5, 2009

Monday, February 11, 2008

Black Man Guilty of Murder

Homeless Man Guilty of Murder
The Gazette, 2/10/2008

A jury has found Joseph Roy Martin, a Montreal homeless man with a drug and alcohol problem, guilty of second degree murder.

On Sunday morning, the six men and six women, who had been deliberating since Friday, found Martin, 33, guilty of fatally stabbing 48-year-old Alain Lachapelle.

Homeless Man Arrested after Swinging at a Davenport Cop
Quad-City Times, 2/10/2008
The man attended a press conference at Davenport City Hall. Mayor Bill Gluba and representatives of local companies such as Alcoa had gathered to voice support for the federal government giving a $40 billion contract for new air refueling planes to Boeing because the Chicago-based aerospace manufacturer would outsource work to local companies.

After the meeting Daniel Robert Stromberg, 42, asked Gluba if he could speak with Secretary of Defense Robert Gates, who was not at the press conference.

Gluba said the man was obviously distraught and ranting, and city staff tried to calm him down.

According to police affidavits, Stromberg eventually left City Hall, but when he was approached by police at 3rd and Ripley streets, he tried to punch a detective.
It's not every day that you see stories like these... it's several times a day. Oftentimes the fact that someone is homeless is identified right in the headline of news articles, if not the very first word. Why is it so important to make sure that the housing status is front and center?

Then, when you actually read the article, you will oftentimes see that there is more going on than homelessness. In the cases above alcoholism and mental illness are noted to be at play. Why aren't these used as the adjective in the title? Is it because "alcoholic" and "mentally ill" are not PC? Why is "Homeless Man" PC?

Beyond the fact that the entire existence of these individuals is summed up in their homelessness, what about the fact that there is a very important word left out of the first title: Found. Even in typing the title out I accidentally wrote "... Man Found Guilty..." That's a key word in the court system today but apparently this man was so low that he didn't even deserve to have it in the title.

It's not just two random articles. Watch the news feeds, daily you will see at least two articles that highlight one's homelessness with one's bad behavior, rarely the other way around.

Wednesday, August 8, 2007

Homeless in the Media

Cops: Homeless Man Tried to Rob McDonalds
Newsday.com 8/8/07
A homeless man who turned to robbing for food instead of begging for it was arrested after using a pair of scissors in an attempted holdup of a McDonald's in Uniondale, police said yesterday.
Good Samaritans End up Victims of Homeless Woman
Fond du Lac Reporter 8/8/07
Two people trying to do a good deed by helping a homeless woman ended up her victims, according to a Fond du Lac County Sheriff’s Department report.

The couple allowed the woman and her husband to stay at their house on Mallard Lane for free since the homeless couple was having financial problems, according to a Sheriff's Department report.
Its rare that I can go a day without my googlereader homeless feed pulling up some random story that details the wrongdoings of some homeless person. That isn't very productive. Articles like these do nothing but evoke fear in the readers. I imagine that the McDonalds article would have gotten printed even if the individual had a home but I'm not quite so sure about the home robbery article. I've watched Court TV, this kind of stuff (and worse) happens all of the time.

But, of course, not all articles talk about how terrible homeless people are. For an uplifting read check out this really neat little bit on Eureka Street, Remembering A Homeless Man Named Patrick
Patrick was sitting outside one of those tired buildings at the top of Spring Street. One of those buildings where the doors never open. He had his head in his hands. It was two in the morning. I was walking because I’d missed the last train home and I asked him if he was ok. He asked for a smoke and said he was waiting for the door to open.

Monday, August 6, 2007

Art: Something to Come Home To

Homeless Works Look For New Digs
The Sydney Morning Herald 9/6/07

Beno, 43, is part of a group whose goal is to open a "homelessness art gallery" in the inner city where the homeless and people with mental health problems can exhibit their art. People such as themselves.

"Homelessness is about being alone, and us doing this gives us a sense of community," Beno says.

The group, called Escape Artists, is holding its first exhibition this week to raise awareness of its project during National Homeless Persons Week.

Art isn't just a venue for those with a shelter over our heads. While it isn't a regular practice there are enough shelters and drop in centers that offer art therapy or art studios to suggest that individuals who are experiencing homelessness can benefit from the opportunity to create art. Not only is art a great coping skill, and opportunity for self expression, and a channel for creativity but all of this combined can help lead to a better self worth, something that every individual experiencing homelessness will need in order to make the strides to be successful and get back on their feet (among many other factors of course).

Beyond the benefits for the individual are the benefits for society. One of my work projects has led me to ask several providers what they think the barriers to providing effective services are and for the providers I interviewed about youth the community understanding was frequently cited. People don't necessarily see people who are experiencing homelessness. They think of the pan handler, or the person asleep on the park bench. They forget about the men and women who are pulling 40-hour shifts but are still unable to meet ends meet and the men and women who struggle with addiction and lack the coping skills to help them transition out of homelessness. Artwork that presents homeless camps is incredibly moving. This morning I was on a run and saw a tent slightly off the trail that looked like it was where someone was living and I suddenly felt so selfish for taking that run and worrying about whether I would get to work on time. Seeing how these individuals are forced to live is eye opening and truly shocking and when confronted with these images one can no longer blame these individuals for their addictions and short comings. Artwork that is created by individuals who are experiencing homelessness has a similar affect, it makes one realize that these individuals are just as capable as the rest of us. It is very important that we be frequently reminded of this because it is true. Under the "right" circumstances "we" could easily become "them."

For more:
Understanding the Homeless: Exhibit Offers Local Perspective

Press and Sun-Bulletin 7/6/07

Thursday, July 19, 2007

Violence Against Homeless People

4 Youths Arrested in Attacks on Homeless
Los Angeles Times 7/19/07

Four teenage boys were arrested for allegedly driving around Los Angeles and attacking homeless people while using a cellphone camera to capture some of the assaults, LAPD officials said Monday.

The youths allegedly attacked at least eight homeless people either by throwing smoke bombs or firing plastic pellets from an air pistol at them and in one case throwing a bike into a homeless person's tent as he slept.

Police said the suspects filmed some of the attacks with a cellphone camera, and the attackers intended to post the recordings on the Internet.
A horrific incident? Yes. Shocking? Sadly no. According to the National Coalition for the Homeless attacks on homeless people was up 65% from 2005 to 2006, and these are only the incidents that were reported and confirmed. This spring it was highly publicized that a Florida youngster was facing charges for his treatment of a homeless man, nearly beating him to death if I remember correctly.

What is wrong with these kids? It may not be what is wrong with them but rather what is wrong with society. In a conversation I had this spring with Vicki Wagner, Chief Executive Office for the National Network For Youth, she mentioned that in her thirty years of working to end youth homelessness one of the changes has been that society today views homelessness as a nuisance rather than a problem that we should work to solve. That may be what is wrong with these kids.


EDIT: One day later and already two more similar stories:
Homeless man slain-- teenager sought
San Francisco Chronicle 7/20/07

3 Statesville Teams Charged in Beating Death of Homeless Man
WRAL.com 7/20/07

EDIT: Another day, another article:
Belfast Court Appearance for Man Charged wit Death of Homeless Man
Belfast Telegraph 7/21/07

EDIT:
Arkno Duo Attack Two Elderly Homeless Men
Cleavland.com 7/23/07